I showed him a copy of his ip trace.said I would die - be killed. He never asked for money, I thought I was always a step ahead of him.
First off I would not call anyone names, instead the guy who says his wife got killed and he has his son, if he is the father (first red flag) how would he have to get custody of him, he is his father.
Most of us fell for the sweet romance and nice talking to us.
In the gulf of Mexico on a Oil Rig since 2014 and was in Turkey, he has asked for up to 56,000 dollars, and is still asking.
Five different states he wanted it sent to and also Mexico.
I did a google search and found out lots, On Asian porn sites he was, romance sites, almost every single site there is, met him on facebook and 19 times he has been reported with different names and pictures. I apologize for anyone that has called Africans monkeys, I have not called anyone monkey and will not do it as my children are Black.
Yes I agree it is a shame some live like this and make their money by using women like this, if I say no I am called names and how he is going to come here and kick my ass. Please, Dr Phil had a good one on last week where this lady was scammed big time, it was so very sad and it was just like what has happened to me. Unfortunately in every human race we have good and bad.
We were both on a dating site and he quicky asked me to jump over to Yahoo and use regular email so I set up a bogus account on Yahoo and also gmail, and Installed the chat. Widowed, one child , age 15 however, once we got to regular email his emails were very choppy. He said he was self Employed oil rig engineer in Houston, Tx with 8 men working with him.
He right away fell madly in love with me and told me how great a kisser he was.He asked for my snail address to send me a card but what I got was a dozen long stem Roses, a teddy bear and a box of Candy. Every Day I did an ip search and boy this guy traveled! I was getting bored with him so I told him I was very poor and I had nothing to offer him.That didn't work so then when he told me after Christmas he would come and visit me but he wasn't in the state and that was the bye bye.Now, to answer your question as why we use the internet approach instead of going to clubs and meeting people, perhaps we don't feel comfortable or like that type of environment.Instead we reached out to what was supposed to be a safe site to find companionship and instead we found a low-life creature that took advantage of us.Just like you don't like being called monkey, we don't like being called fools, stupid, ugly, fat, gold diggers, and the list goes on.