As I continue answering your questions about the opposite sex, I want to address a couple of topics that have to do with the beginning stages of a dating relationship.
Time and communication are going to be your two best friends in this situation.
In the end, if he really cares about you, he’ll want the world to know.
DAWSON: What you’re experiencing happens to a lot of peopleit’s called infatuation. But it does not pass an important test: the test of time.
I’m not sure what the exact situation is with your boyfriend, but he may be using you, or he may even be worried about being embarrassed if other people find out he’s in a relationship with you. Someone who truly cares about you should be proud to tell other people about you.
Anytime there is secrecy involved in a relationship, there’s a cause for worry.
Relationships should be about joy, happiness, and lovenot secrecy.
If I were you, I would tell him how much you’re enjoying your relationship with him, but how difficult it is to not be able to talk about it with those who are closest to you.
Ask him if you could tell your best friend about the relationship, and see how he reacts.
On the other hand, I want to encourage you to not be too quick to define your relationship with your secret boyfriend.
Some people feel they have to tell the world when they are dating someone.
This can be frightening to guys who are often afraid of calling something a relationship, before they are really sure what it is.