As a general rule, never do this, in any way, ever, til death.
Should I say, “Well, I don’t hook up right away, so most guys get bored with me, and that’s why I’m single!
” Or should I say, “I get really clingy around month three and it scares guys off, so here I am, solo!
” The world already gives single girls the side-eye; there really is no need to bring up singledom on dates. When men say this to me, it makes me feel like something is wrong with me — especially because 99% of the men who use corny lines like this will not make any moves to take me off the market. As a Plus-Size Princess, I often wonder if the guys asking me out have dated big girls before (not that it matters, but I do wonder), and I’ve learned that the answer is rarely helpful.
Asking me what I “do for fun” kind of makes me feel like I’m on an interview, not a date.
Some of you may be thinking that this question means the guy is trying to plan a future date for us.
I really wish you were right, but that’s what makes this question extra annoying: The same guys who ask me what I to do for fun will turn around in two weeks, and ask me what I would like to do for our first date, even though I’ve given them a list of things I do for fun. There is no faster way to make me feel like I’m failing at life than to ask me why I’m single.
I mean, what is the right answer to a question like this?
Asking questions during a phone conversation isn’t something you do randomly. Asking the right questions and in the right order can make a lasting impression and can make sure you get the date.
It’s also an essential part of being a great conversationalist.
Before we get into the questions, here are 5 tips to keep in mind about your questions: What I mean when I say never ask those Sexual questions: Ok this is really touchy.
Guys love to try to turn a conversation toward a sexual topic or make sexual innuendo.