A lot of people are going to pass you up when they see that is not resolved.
In my life, I am the fun girl, the one everyone wants to know. Did any of you feel this way when you first started this? Don't take it personally when someone doesn't respond. I posted a thread in the Testimonials section called "After 18 months..." where I go into details about pros and cons.
Sometimes it just means they haven't logged on in a while. You have access to lots of profiles here and will surely meet someone nice. But I stuck it out and met a lot of great people online. I went out with someone who told me on the first date that she preferred guys who were bigger than she was LOL because it made her feel more secure. There's a lot of rejection and you have to get used to it.
I've found over the years too that whether thin or "thick", there are people who are into your type. I will say, however, that your profile says "separated" and that is going to work against you on a dating site.
Perhaps your issue is more about straightening out that aspect of your life before you start looking.
And it's still hard for me as I have hang out on my profile, lots of people want more on here and I guess thats really whats its for.. Happy Rejection happens to everyone on dating sites (and in the real world) and if you’re the type of person who takes that personally and to heart, you will not have a pleasant experience here. Because it's what they say that caught my attention.
You WILL be judged on very superficial things like your appearance and your weight, but you have to ask yourself if you really CARE if someone is dismissing you based solely on those attributes? It's who someone is that counts, not what they look like.Are those the type of people you want in your life? And someone you'll want to be with, is going to know this... they'll read what you have written about yourself, and decide on that.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. I have reached out to a couple of people and nothing.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... I am used to people establishing an opinion of me based on my smile, my demeanor, my handshake, my laugh, how I carry myself. So I start second guessing myself and I'm resisting just yanking my profile off!Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. While I have never considered myself beautiful, I do think I am attractive. Honestly, I can see that I probably am one of those girls with "a great personality" so maybe internet dating isn't for me and I should stick with more traditional methods of meeting people so they get the whole picture.I am very new to any dating at all, much less internet dating and I am starting to see what a thin skin I have when it comes to this. And I know the weight thing has been done to death so i won't go on too much about it, but I do think it's unbelieveable that a girl can be anywhere from 3' to 8' tall and make less than ,000 a year as long as she's thin, fit, athletic. Sorry - I'm just having a minor freak out here so thanks for bearing with me. It's so different meeting people through a website vs in person.