If you want all these things, then by all means look for a single guy.
As exciting as cheating affair relationships are, they have an expiry date.
The odd choice of men non-withstanding, dating a married guy can be complicated.
This is not a conventional relationship, so some rules are different. So he showers you with gifts, gives you his attention, tells you sweet nothings while you cuddle up at night.
If you have made peace with the fact that you are seeing a married man, then you better know what you are getting into. Eventually, like all little boys, he will get tired of his toy. Don’t be fooled into thinking that you are number one in his life.
Her needs will always come first, so get this in your mind from early on.
Don’t be surprised when a cheating affair date has been abruptly canceled because he is taking his wife to a silly costume party. If he as to choose between his child’s play and a night out in Bradford with you, you probably already know which one he will choose. Don’t make the mistake of thinking he owes you anything.
He doesn’t owe you his money, his time, even his emotions. If you know this, things will be much easier for you.
You have no claim to him apart from the time that you spend together.
When having a cheating affair with a married man, you better understand that you are just a Bradford play thing. If he is any kind of real man, his family will always come first.
The sooner you get this through your head; the best things will be for you in the long run. A married man looking for an affair partner is essentially looking for a play thing. Sneaking from work for an afternoon of uninterrupted passion, the late-night dirty talk, the weekend getaways, it is all a game to him. He may complain endlessly about his wife, but in reality, he is not about to leave her.
Being married comes with a certain social standing.
You had better believed that he is not going to give this up. Just because he is stepping out on his wife doesn’t mean that she is any less important.