” And in this case it’s, “He bought me flowers because he likes me, but he doesn’t even know anything about me yet! They won’t make jokes or laugh with the woman, they won’t play around like they do with their friends and they generally take things a little too seriously.
Let’s face it you never get a second chance to make a first impression!
That’s why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best on the very first date.
And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they’re doing it right!
Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your chances of success on your first date: MISTAKE #1 — BUYING GIFTS Bringing chocolate or flowers on a first date isn’t the best idea – especially if you’ve just met the woman! Women are always asking themselves “what does THAT mean? SERIOUS When in the presence of a potential date, men often become boring, instead of keeping up the friendly vibe they have with their friends.
” or constantly change his opinion to seek her approval and make her like him. Ironically, it’s leaning back, staying cool and calm, being a little cheeky, interesting, mysterious and comfortable with yourself that actually gets a woman’s attention and keeps her interested.
MISTAKE #5 — GOING TO BORING PLACES If your date finds the night boring, you’re finished.
When it comes to having fun on first dates, nothing is more important than what you do.
Serious” they often fall into “job interview conversation mode.” Make sure you reserve questions like, “So where do you work? ” for the future, after you’ve already had a lot of fun and made the sparks fly.
Instead, talk about your hobbies, interesting stories and fun stuff. On a first date, it can make things a little depressing.